Valentine’s day – The taboo

Disclamer: if you happen to notice some similarity of your behaviour towards me in the stories i post, YES the post is about you! But do me a favour…STFU about it! I dont want to hear it! Quite an interesting topic this one! A taboo because no one really wants to genuinely talk about it, everyone is afraid of being judged so we hide behind the ‘accepatable’ remarks towards it, whether you are for or against. But don’t worry yourself about this, im here to say everything that you are afraid to say. I think for me the most interesting...

The horrors of being a woman

Disclamer: if you happen to notice some similarity of your behaviour towards me in the stories i post, YES the post is about you! But do me a favour…STFU about it! I dont want to hear it! Been a while…anyway, my last post was about not being worthy enough to the society as a unmarried single childless woman. As if I already didnt know this fact, the universe decided to remind me yet again through a dear friend..male friend. He made some comment about how I should be charged less cos i dont have a husband ( paint job for...

30 hundred and dating

Here is what I have noticed as a 30 hundred woman trying to date (among other things), men don’t respect you. Now let me cook alright…before you bite my head off! You know how they say having a man in your life gives you some sort of a status in society..like some respect to some extent, from ofcos your fellow male aquintances…friends…general men around you really…whelp I’m here to tell you that I have witnessed this to be true in my own life..the opppsite of this ofcos because…no man!. I have experienced it all, from unannounced visits, to late night...